parenting orders

Determine the type of custody arrangement (joint, sole, or shared)

Establish a visitation schedule that works for both parents

Discuss arrangements for holidays, birthdays, and special occasions

Decide on transportation logistics for visitation exchanges

Include provisions for make-up visitation in case of cancellations or changes

Establish guidelines for regular communication between parents

Determine preferred methods of communication (phone, email, text, etc.)

Discuss protocols for sharing important information about the children

Establish guidelines for resolving conflicts or disagreements

Include provisions for attending school events and extracurricular activities together

Determine child support amount and payment schedule

Discuss payment method (direct transfer, checks, or through a government agency)

Include provisions for sharing expenses related to education, healthcare, and extracurricular activities

Specify consequences for non-payment or late payment

Discuss procedures for reviewing and revising child support as necessary

Determine choice of school or educational institution

Discuss procedures for enrolling the children in school

Establish guidelines for involvement in parent-teacher conferences and school activities

Determine healthcare arrangements, including medical insurance coverage

Include provisions for sharing healthcare decisions and expenses

Discuss procedures for notifying the other parent about planned vacations or trips

Determine requirements for obtaining consent for out-of-state or international travel

Establish guidelines for providing travel itineraries and emergency contact information

Include provisions for sharing travel expenses and costs

Discuss procedures for handling unexpected travel delays or changes

Specify conditions under which the parenting plan can be modified

Discuss methods for resolving disputes or disagreements (mediation, counseling, etc.)

Include provisions for involving professionals (therapists, child specialists, etc.) if necessary

Establish guidelines for documenting changes or modifications to the parenting plan

Discuss procedures for seeking court intervention if disputes cannot be resolved

Include provisions for grandparents' visitation, if applicable

Discuss procedures for introducing new partners or step-parents to the children

Specify procedures for handling emergencies or unexpected situations

Include provisions for maintaining a positive and respectful co-parenting relationship

List any other relevant details or agreements not covered in previous sections