BDSM Checklist for Age play

Physical Limits

Spanking

Hair pulling

Bondage

Role-playing

Choking

Nipple clamps

Impact play with paddles or floggers

Wax play

Knife play

Temperature play with ice or hot wax

Sensation play with feathers or ticklers

Electrical play with violet wands or TENS units

Suspension bondage

Breath play

Role-play Scenarios

Schoolgirl/teacher

Daddy/daughter

Babysitter/baby

Doctor/patient

Boss/intern

Coach/player

Nurse/patient

Police officer/criminal

Step-sibling/step-sibling

Pet owner/pet

Master/slave

Alien/human

Vampire/human

Fairy/tinkerbell

Sexual Activities

Oral sex

Anal play

Vaginal intercourse

Masturbation

Bondage and restraint play

Impact play (spanking, paddling, etc.)

Sensation play (using implements like feathers, ice, or wax)

Role-playing specific age play scenarios during sexual activities

Incorporating age play language and behaviors into sexual interactions

Exploring power dynamics and dominance/submission dynamics within the age play dynamic

Using age play attire or props during sexual activities

Engaging in age play-themed dirty talk during sexual activities

Limits and Boundaries

No age regression past a certain age

Safe words for stopping play

No public displays of age play

Clear communication about desires and boundaries

No involvement of actual children in age play scenarios

No humiliation or degradation related to age play

No non-consensual age play with partners who are not aware of the dynamic

No sharing of age play fantasies with others without consent

Equipment and Toys

Pacifiers

Diapers

Schoolgirl outfit

Bondage restraints

Ball gags

Collars and leashes

Spanking implements (paddles, floggers, etc.)

Crops and riding crops

Blindfolds

Cuffs (wrist, ankle, thigh)

Electric shock devices

Nipple clamps

Vibrators and dildos

Sensory deprivation equipment (hoods, masks)

Furniture (such as a spanking bench or St. Andrew's Cross)

Aftercare

Cuddling

Talking about the experience

Checking in on emotional well-being

Providing comfort and reassurance

Offering water or a snack

Applying lotion or massage oil to soothe any soreness

Engaging in gentle physical touch or affection

Encouraging the use of a comfort object or blanket

Creating a calm and safe environment for relaxation

Discussing any concerns or lingering thoughts

Planning for future aftercare needs or preferences