BDSM Checklist for Maid

Personal Information

Name

Age

Address

Contact Number

Safe Word

Emergency Contact

Medical Conditions/Allergies

Previous experience with BDSM

Preferred communication method

Availability/schedule

Social media handles (if applicable)

Relationship status

Sexual orientation/preferences

Limits and Boundaries

Hard Limits

Soft Limits

Boundaries

Specific acts or activities that are non-negotiable and are completely off-limits

Activities or scenarios that may be considered but require careful negotiation and may be subject to change over time

Emotional or psychological limits that should be respected and not crossed

Physical boundaries that should not be pushed or exceeded

Limits regarding public or private settings for certain activities

Any previous traumatic experiences or triggers that should be avoided

Limits on the level of pain or intensity that can be tolerated

Limits on the duration or frequency of certain activities

Any restrictions on involving other individuals in the dynamic or play

Tasks and Duties

Cleaning

Cooking

Serving

Dressing

Running Errands

Organizing and tidying up the living space

Laundry tasks such as washing, drying, folding, and ironing clothes

Dusting and wiping down surfaces

Vacuuming and mopping floors

Cleaning and disinfecting bathrooms

Washing dishes and putting them away

Making the bed and changing sheets

Taking out the trash and recycling

Watering plants and caring for pets

Stocking and organizing supplies and groceries

Setting the table and serving meals

Preparing and serving drinks

Following specific recipes and meal plans

Plating and presenting food in a visually appealing manner

Assisting with meal cleanup and washing dishes

Bringing items to the Dominant's desired location

Handling correspondence and mail

Completing any other household tasks assigned by the Dominant

Uniform and Attire

Maid Uniform

High Heels

Collar and Leash

Apron

Stockings or pantyhose

Gloves

Hair accessories (such as a maid headpiece or bow)

Cleaning supplies (such as a feather duster or cleaning cloth)

Shoes with non-slip soles

Name tag or badge

Chastity device (if applicable)

Makeup requirements (if applicable)

Jewelry restrictions or requirements

Punishments and Rewards

Spanking

Corner Time

Verbal Humiliation

Praise and Rewards

Writing Lines

Orgasm Control

Impact Play with Implements (such as paddles, floggers, etc.)

Denial of Privileges

Physical Restraints

Sensory Deprivation

Forced Orgasms

Assigning Extra Tasks or Chores

Public Display of Submission (such as wearing a collar or leash in public)

Financial Dominance (such as controlling the submissive's spending or budget)

Forced Exercise or Physical Training

Equipment and Tools

Cleaning Supplies

Restraints

Toys

Gag

Collar and leash

Spanking implements

Blindfold

Rope

Cuffs

Paddles

Whips

Nipple clamps

Vibrators

Chastity device

Communication and Feedback

Daily Check-ins

Feedback Sessions

Open Communication

Adjusting Boundaries

Encouraging honesty and transparency

Providing a safe space for discussing concerns

Implementing a system for providing constructive feedback

Regularly evaluating communication methods and adjusting as needed

Setting aside dedicated time for discussing any issues or concerns

Establishing a process for resolving conflicts or misunderstandings

Encouraging active listening and empathy during discussions

Training and Development

Skill Building

Role-play Practice

Journaling

Reading Resources

Attending workshops or classes

Seeking guidance from experienced individuals in the BDSM community

Participating in online forums or discussion groups

Experimenting with different techniques and scenarios

Receiving feedback and constructive criticism

Health and Safety

Safe Play Practices

Regular Check-ups

Emergency Contacts

Aftercare Routine

Consent and Negotiation

Negotiation Process

Consent Guidelines

Reviewing Boundaries

Re-negotiation Period

Additional Notes

Any additional information or preferences related to the BDSM Maid dynamic.