BDSM Checklist for Role Play

Discuss boundaries and limits with partner

Establish safe words and signals

Ensure proper consent is given by all parties involved

Discuss any medical conditions or physical limitations that may impact the scene

Determine the level of experience and comfort with BDSM activities

Share any triggers or past traumas that may need to be avoided during the scene

Establish a plan for aftercare and emotional support post-scene

Create a safe, comfortable environment

Gather necessary supplies and equipment

Establish roles and expectations for each participant

Discuss any limits or boundaries before beginning the scene

Set the scene with appropriate props or furniture

Ensure any safewords or signals are established and understood

Check in with each participant to ensure they are mentally and emotionally prepared for the scene

Establish a clear beginning and end to the scene

Ensure communication channels are open and encourage feedback throughout the scene

Discuss and agree upon specific scenarios or fantasies

Plan out dialogue and actions for each role

Establish any props or costumes needed for the scene

Set clear boundaries and safe words for the role play

Discuss any triggers or potential emotional reactions that may arise during the scene

Agree upon the intensity level of the role play (light, moderate, heavy)

Decide on a location for the scene and ensure it is safe and private

Establish a time frame for the role play and agree upon any breaks or pauses that may be needed

Communicate openly throughout the scene

Check in with each participant regularly

Monitor physical and emotional well-being of everyone involved

Provide emotional support and reassurance

Address any physical needs or injuries

Discuss the scene and any feedback with partner