checklist for a submissive live-in 24/7 house slave

Daily Responsibilities

Maintain cleanliness in common areas.

Prepare meals according to the Dominant’s preferences.

Complete assigned chores and tasks.

Ensure the environment is comfortable and welcoming.

Check in with the Dominant for any additional tasks or needs.

Communication Protocols

Use proper titles when addressing the Dominant.

Report on tasks completed throughout the day.

Ask permission before making decisions outside of routine tasks.

Maintain an open dialogue about feelings and experiences.

Schedule regular check-ins to discuss any issues or concerns.

Self-Care and Well-being

Set aside time for personal hygiene and grooming.

Engage in activities that promote mental and emotional well-being.

Keep a journal to reflect on experiences and feelings.

Ensure adequate rest and sleep.

Communicate any health concerns to the Dominant promptly.

Training and Development

Participate in any training sessions as directed by the Dominant.

Practice skills that enhance servitude and submission.

Reflect on progress and areas for improvement.

Set personal goals related to service and submission.

Embrace opportunities for learning and growth.

Rules and Boundaries

Review and understand the established rules within the household.

Read the rulebook thoroughly.
Ask questions for clarification.
Take notes on key points.
Discuss any unclear rules with the Dominant.
Commit to memory for daily practices.

Respect personal and relational boundaries.

Identify personal limits clearly.
Communicate boundaries openly.
Honor the Dominant's boundaries.
Avoid crossing established lines.
Reassess boundaries regularly.

Discuss any changes to rules with the Dominant before implementation.

Request a meeting to discuss changes.
Present reasons for the proposed changes.
Listen to the Dominant's perspective.
Agree on a timeline for any adjustments.
Document any agreed changes.

Acknowledge the consequences of breaking rules.

Understand the established consequences.
Accept responsibility for actions.
Discuss consequences with the Dominant.
Reflect on past transgressions.
Commit to avoiding future breaches.

Provide feedback on rules and boundaries for mutual understanding.

Schedule regular feedback sessions.
Share feelings about current rules.
Suggest improvements or adjustments.
Listen to the Dominant's feedback.
Document changes agreed upon.

Here are some additional steps that could be included in the "Rules and Boundaries" section of the checklist

Establish a safe word or signal to use in case of discomfort or emergency

Choose a word or signal that is easy to remember.
Ensure both parties understand its meaning.
Practice using the safe word in a calm setting.
Reiterate the importance of using it.
Review the safe word regularly.

Regularly revisit and reassess rules to ensure they remain relevant and respectful

Set a schedule for rule review.
Evaluate the effectiveness of each rule.
Discuss relevancy with the Dominant.
Make adjustments as needed.
Document any changes.

Clearly define acceptable and unacceptable behaviors within the household

Create a list of acceptable behaviors.
Identify behaviors that are not tolerated.
Discuss reasoning behind each behavior.
Ensure clarity to avoid misunderstandings.
Review the list regularly for updates.

Agree on privacy boundaries regarding personal belongings and space

Discuss personal space needs.
Identify which belongings are private.
Establish guidelines for entering personal space.
Respect privacy boundaries at all times.
Revisit privacy agreements periodically.

Communicate any triggers or sensitivities that may affect rule adherence

Identify personal triggers and sensitivities.
Share this information with the Dominant.
Discuss how triggers affect behavior.
Develop strategies to manage triggers.
Reassess triggers regularly.

Ensure that all rules are consensual and understood by both parties

Discuss each rule in detail.
Confirm mutual consent on all rules.
Address any concerns about rules.
Document mutual understanding.
Review consent regularly.

Set guidelines for conflict resolution when disagreements arise

Establish a protocol for addressing conflicts.
Agree on a neutral time to discuss issues.
Encourage open and honest communication.
Practice active listening during conflicts.
Document resolutions for future reference.

Outline expectations for outside relationships and interactions with others

Discuss the nature of outside relationships.
Set boundaries regarding social interactions.
Agree on disclosure of relationships to each other.
Establish guidelines for communicating with others.
Revisit expectations as needed.

Establish rules regarding financial matters, if applicable

Discuss financial responsibilities and contributions.
Set guidelines for spending and saving.
Agree on how financial decisions are made.
Create a budget if necessary.
Review financial agreements regularly.

Discuss and agree on limits regarding household tasks and responsibilities

List all household tasks and responsibilities.
Agree on who is responsible for each task.
Discuss limits on workload and time commitments.
Reassess task distribution regularly.
Document agreed responsibilities.

Ensure that rules promote a healthy and supportive environment for both parties

Discuss the impact of rules on well-being.
Encourage mutual support and encouragement.
Identify rules that may hinder growth.
Adjust rules to enhance the environment.
Regularly reflect on the emotional atmosphere.

Special Events and Occasions

Prepare for any planned events or gatherings.

Assist the Dominant in organizing and executing special occasions.

Show appreciation and support for the Dominant during events.

Respect the significance of any rituals or traditions.

Reflect on experiences from special events for future improvement.

This checklist can be tailored further based on personal dynamics and preferences.