consensual non consent kink checklist
General Guidelines
Consent and Negotiation
- Choose a comfortable, private setting.
- Use open-ended questions to explore each other's interests.
- Discuss hard and soft limits explicitly.
- Ensure all parties feel safe to express themselves.
- Take notes if necessary for clarity.
- Brainstorm a list of activities together.
- Prioritize scenarios based on mutual interest.
- Discuss any previous experiences related to these activities.
- Consider potential safety concerns for each scenario.
- Establish safe words or signals for each activity.
- Agree on a start and end time for the scene.
- Discuss duration and type of aftercare needed.
- Use timers or alarms to help manage time.
- Allow flexibility for adjustments if needed.
- Ensure everyone is comfortable with the agreed timing.
Use in Manifestly